Ideally Speaking... Life should be:

Ideally, I should have been an interior designer / model / CEO. Ideally, I should have been living in London / Switzerland / Paris. Ideally I should have had "Rs. X million" amount of bank balance by this age .... The list can just go on.

"Ideally" everything seems perfect, beautiful & so well fitted into our life. We always have a scope for "idealism" to settle in, no matter what task at hand. But its never so. No matter how perfect we execute, get, receive, send, give or perform, we always have this scope undelivered!

Pause here now and think that if there was only "Idealism" in our life, we would be left with no more wishes. No more desire to have more, do more, get more. Its this unfinished, incompleteness that gives us wings of hopes, desires and wants.

In life you may get what's "Ideal", but then you may not value it, because you would'nt have seen the "not so ideal" picture. God really had the vision to see this "forever wanting" (crudely - Greed!) in us humans. That's exactly why He gave you life the way it is. So that you value it, desire for something better and achieve your ideal life.

Today, if you're still there waiting for ideal things to happen, stop and think: Nothing ideal or perfect exists... You ought to manage yourself and your life to get an ideal.

Marriage / Husband / Wife / Sister / Brother / Job / House / Money: Nothing can be tagged ideal... till you really hone yourself to be one. Its just this lifetime... make it "The ideal one!"

To be or WHAT to be?

There are times in life when your own loved ones fail to understand you. And though they claim to know you better than themselves, yet they can't cope with you at times. It becomes a hazy, abstract situation, wherein, we don't know how to be with them (though we have tried our best to best with them!!!).

Though life is far more interesting than just tackling such tasks, yet there are times when everything else is put to side in pursuit of ideals. Quite a few people wish for everything IDEAL in their life: ideal mother, wife, husband, father, daughter, friend, siblings....the list goes on. But again, ideal, like happiness is an abstract and relative term. Each has his/her own versions! Sadly, you can't download all such versions and start being one. A possible way out is to be what you are yet act someone else (the ideal one). But this again is short lived. And someday would outpour. Then is there a way out to know what To be or WHAT to be?



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